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hello I'm new

Postby mummybear12 » Tue Oct 14, 2014 2:41 pm

Hello all just after some support please. Little back story first found out I had pcos in 08 and life sinice has been a rollercoaster. I did manage too fall pregnant in very late 2011 and had a little girl in Oct 12 I've struggled with my bond with my little one sounds strange but being told id never have a child naturally then go on too fall naturally has effected my mental healh my birth went wrong ending in a c section which I basically convinced myself was due too not being able to have a child so this then lead too pnd and after cbt I'm here not great but just going along I'm infertile again and just started metformin again but its sent my emotions off again grr hate pcos. We want another baby but it is so hard I feel sad any advice welcome
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby White Dragon » Tue Oct 14, 2014 3:50 pm

Hi mummybear. I can't give any advice but it's good to meet you. I'm new here too. I was only diagnosed a few weeks ago and just coming to terms with it. Anyway I am a good listener even though I'm not good at advice. Take care hun.
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby mummybear12 » Tue Oct 14, 2014 4:08 pm

Hello white dragon thank you for reply. Sorry you've only just found out. How does it effect you? For me I have a weight problem excess facial hair or hair general terrible pms. I don't ovulate least my last blood test suggested I didn't. It's a nightmare
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby White Dragon » Tue Oct 14, 2014 4:20 pm

I have facial hair which is quite embarrassing. But at least I know the reason for it now. I'm actually quite small and in fact I'm trying to put on some weight. I had a blood test and it came back normal but had an ultrasound scan and that is when I found out. I just worry about if I get a boyfriend whether he will notice and be put off but I suppose that if he cared then it wouldn't matter.
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby mummybear12 » Tue Oct 14, 2014 5:14 pm

When I first met my husband I would make my skin bleed taking the hair off with veet and those funny sanding disks
for removing hair but I now pluck in front of him and he doesn't care at all I do ask that he doesn't touch my face as I hate it so much for me I can live with everything else but the facial hair upset me a lot
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby White Dragon » Tue Oct 14, 2014 6:02 pm

It upsets me too. I keep thinking that I'm ugly because of it. I tend to shave them off. Not ideal I know.
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby mummybear12 » Tue Oct 14, 2014 6:19 pm

I totally get that hun you kinda get desperate don't you too be hair free? how old are you hun? I'm 32
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Re: hello I'm new

Postby White Dragon » Tue Oct 14, 2014 6:33 pm

I'm 25. I sometimes try to hide my face so people won't notice the hair. I also keep looking in mirrors to make sure that it isn't too noticeable.
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