I do not post very often but I looking for guidance.
We have a 9 year old daughter and have been trying to have another baby since she was about 18 months. We have had 6 rounds of IUI but nothing happened. We then had two miscarriages in 2010 and 2011. Over the last couple of years nothing has happened and although we have not stopped trying, I think we had both got our head round the fact it was not going to happen and we started planning our lives as a three and just been grateful because I do know we are so lucky.
However 5 weeks ago we were shocked to discover I was pregnant again. Both of us said that we would not get excited, not to get our hopes up and must keep our feet on the ground about this. However yet again I have miscarried. This time seems so cruel and both of us are struggling to get our heads around it. We were happy as a three but the fact that a different future was dangled in front us and it has been cruelly taken away it hard to take at the moment.
We have been offered to be refereed to a recurrent miscarriage clinic - any positive stories would be gratefully received.