When I went to the doctors and described everything that had happened to me she thought i had PCOS, but i had to have bloods and an external ultrasound to be sure.
My sister has a phobia of needles so literally has run out of doctors rooms before at the mention of them so just make sure you mention this, maybe you could take your mum or a friend to cling on to if they need blood, but they would prob do it on a different day anyway (iv'e always had to re-book for bloods) so you had chance to get your head round it
As for the scan, i didnt want to get my belly out, but the lady who does it will stare at the screen the whole time and iv'e had three they have all been the same. Also the women have all been quite nice its fine to say you are nervous and you can take someone in.
I dont know if iv'e helped or not, i think being diagnosed will be better for you now as they can discuss things to help your symptoms and when you do want to try for a baby you will prob have all the knowledge you need to help yourself! Presuming you have any problems that is!
Ok so what im trying to say is, since i was diagnosed iv'e felt so much better and this website is amazing! I hope you get the answers you need.
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